Friday, August 12, 2011

Beat The Fear of Rejection

I'm pretty sure that we have all been rejected at one point or another in our lives, some by their parents and others by society and other people.

This then grows into a root of fear when we are not careful enough to confront it and uproot it , when its not dealt with it can penetrate your life and slip into your mind, emotions and begin to influence your decision making (will) so the longer you take in attending to it the stronger its influence will be until an opportune time where it will control your decision making from its stronghold.

The first thing to remember is that in life sometimes things just happen of which you have no control over so stop expecting life to be perfect and all rosy because that will limits your ability to learn from bad situations because Hardships produce Perseverance produces Character produces Hope and hope never disappoints.

There is no generic Success Formula which makes life easy but there is something called Choice or Decision and once you really make one and never look back then life becomes a whole lot better so here is what you need to decide on:

1. Will you keep complaining/whinning and blaming other people for your failures and decisions or the lack thereof?
OR
2. Will you note that sometimes things happen and that not everyone will love and accept you for you?
Choose number 2 and make a decision to live a life not controlled by other's reception towards you and I promise you'll see that you're the one giving them the power/ability to affect your life (health, mental wellnes and happinness)

Tw Tsenase